I asked a doctor this and she said;
“Actually yes…and no.
Scar tissue is strong, but it lacks flexibility – it doesn’t stretch like normal tissue.”
Which blows away one of my theories about grief making you stronger…and broader and deeper.
But perhaps not – perhaps the depth and compassion you achieve with the experience of loss,
comes with an equivalent limitation and inflexibility, perhaps even a greater shock when
loss occurs…
I leave the last word with Elizabeth Kubler-Ross: